Sexless

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Dear Elyse,
I am with a 22 year old and my gf is 18. She refuses to have sex with me When I try to put it in, she freaks out. What can I do to get her to have sex with me?
Yours,
Dying sexless

Dear Dying Sexless,
You have a couple of options. One you can hypnotize your girlfriend into having sex with you. You can also sedate her and then have sex with her. Of course, if you want the relationship to continue I wouldn't recommend these tactics. Instead, i recommend asking your girlfriend how the first time having sex would be comfortable. I would also tell her about rewarding sex can be!
Yours,
Elyse