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Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Hiding being hot for her

Dear Elyse,
I met this girl and she was oh so fine. We had a great conversation and ended up realizing that we have several interests and values in common. She even asked about my family. This was Friday night. I really want to see her again. Do you think that I should wait till Tuesday before I email her?
Yours,
Hiding being Hot for Her

Dear Hiding Being Hot for Her,
Please know that if you really like a girl and feel that she likes you, it is better to call sooner than later as then you will be putting her out of her agony. Do you think any girl likes waiting by the phone for you to call? Also it sounds like you are concerned about coming across as too eager to get in her pants. Whether or not girls perceive you as a pervert or as over eager isn't really about how long you wait to call, it's more about the content of your messages. If you say something like want to come over or you are really hot than that will be construed as a booty call. However, if you suggest a romantic yet not overtly sexual activity than you will be seen as a suitor and woman love that. What woman would turn down a date to paddle around the lake in central park? Yours,
Elyse

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