Give a guy a gift

Dear Elyse, I've been told never to give a guy a gift. I'm wondering about the wisdom behind this mantra. Any ideas why it could be detrimental to a relationship to give a guy a gift? I've been thinking about the question of getting a man a gift and some very thoughtful friends have provided some interesting insights as to why it might not be circumspect. (1) That a gift might signify that you expect a gift in return. (2) If you give a guy one gift, you have to then give a guy multiple gifts. But it is not ... (3) If you give a guy gift you are showing emotions. If you and a guy are in some sort of a relationship, what is wrong with showing you care for him? Who doesn't like being attended to? Albeit that, make sure the gift is personal and thoughtful not some generic over priced polo that clashes with his complexion. Also, try to have a reason to give the gift such as a holiday o you now he's been having a tough week and you wanted to cheer him up. Random gift droppings are a little strange.The best gift is cookies or any food. Males have an appetite. Who is going to say no to food. Worst gift a book on better sex. No male wants o hear that their sexual moves need work.