Dear Elyse,
I'm very shy and have a difficult time meeting men. I'm often at a loss for what to say when trying to maintain a conversation with guys. Often, I end up freaking out and running away from guys who are probably perfectly nice. I really want to meet someone. What do I do?
Yours,
Shy but Sweet
Dear Shy but Sweet,
First, I would try and arrange to meet guys and do activities with them. That way you are distracted by the activity and don't necessarily need to talk to them that much. In addition, let them do the talking. Ask them questions about themselves. Also- I would suggest that you take an Improv Comedy Class. That can help you become more comfortable interacting with strangers.
Yours,
Elyse
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